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Secrets to Fulfillment Jan 26, 2022

Where do you go for fulfillment?  For so many people I talk to, the cup is half empty.  One area of their life or another is “not working”.  This is a perennial complaint I hear in our workshops and coaching sessions.

 

My area of expertise is how males and females...

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Making Fun of Grown-Ups Jan 11, 2022

 

Who’s happier, 3-year-olds or 33-year-olds?  It’s not a trick question.  

 

If you can’t answer, go by a nursery school and watch the kids.

Then drop by a coffee shop or bar where Millennials hang out.  Notice the differences between the...

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Bones of Fulfillment Jan 04, 2022

Your body has two functions.  The first is productive.  You’ll probably agree, without a body, not much gets done.

 

Defacto, you experience life through your body.  Your car or bike is your craft (as in vehicle) through which you navigate transportation.  Your body...

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Is Your Life Out of Control? Dec 28, 2021

Do you take comfort in order and certainty?  Self-help guru Tony Robbins names among 6 human needs both variety and certainty.  Variety (or uncertainty) is the need for the unknown, for change and new stimuli.  Certainty is the assurance that we can avoid pain and gain pleasure.

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One High After Another Dec 21, 2021
 
Does the thought of making a new year’s resolution put joy in your heart? 

 

Often, people look at resolutions like a task, and a boring one at that. Resolutions pit mind over matter to avoid an old habit or begin a new one.  

But, as a 2016 research study shows,...

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Ready, Get Set, GROW!! Dec 14, 2021
Will anything actually change for you in 2022?

 

Flip your calendar to a new year...but same old stuff.  Be truthful.  It's a “new year”, but do you really think anything will change?

 

I hate to play Debbie Downer.  And, I value being real.

 

Lasting...

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The One Question You Should Be Asking Yourself Dec 07, 2021

Lots of us have our morning routines: brush teeth, make bed, yoga, meditate, OM, coffee: oh yeah, did I mention coffee?

 

Do you have a nurturing existing morning routine or practice?  Consider asking yourself this question to optimize it.  If you don’t have an energizing...

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Your Body's a Cuisinart? Nov 23, 2021

Have you noticed that people in our society are CRAY-CRAY about their bodies?  Young and old people are obsessed with diet; exercise; fasting; Keto, Mediterranean and Vegan.  They pop pills, chug chemicals called health food and slam energy drinks.  Yet, we see extreme numbers of...

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Hunting your man (How to Bring Out the Best) Nov 09, 2021

For a man and woman to connect over time consistently and powerfully, the woman is wise to be “hunting” for the man that attracted her in the beginning. Familiarity and its sidekick, contempt, can barge in on any long-term relationship, whether professional or familial. When it does,...

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How Much Money Lights You Up? Nov 02, 2021

Are you a numbers person?  Most people I ask say “NO”.  Knowing this, you may get a bit riled up by what I’m about to tell you.

 

There is an amount of money that lights you up. 

 

Yes, an actual number that warms you, relaxes you, ignites you and...

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Give Me Money or Give Me Death Oct 26, 2021

Psychologists, lawyers and coaches will tell us, couples who fight most often fight over two things:  sex and money.

 
Divorces happen over marital infidelity, incompatibility or lack of intimacy.  When money becomes an unbridgeable divide, families split.  Reminds me of the...
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What's Your Filter for Money? Oct 14, 2021
Let's say you're in your house or apartment.  Outside are your kids or maybe your pet dog, doing something cute and funny.  You grab your device to take a picture. 
 

Do you take the picture through the screen door or do you open it to get a clearer picture?

 
When you...
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