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 If you’re a woman, you may not yet own your feminine assets that make you able to lead people (including men) with grace, humor and ease.  That’s why you ought to keep reading this short article that could change your ability to get what you want, without aggression, intimidation or assertiveness.

You may be wondering, now that you earn your own living, live alone, and own a vibrator, what do I really need a man for?  This, my dear, is a wonderful, exciting and potentially cosmic question that can lead to your cosmic enlightenment.

Let's talk about our needs, wants and desires.  Needs are pr...

Take a look at this illustration.  It’s a model of human relating. It has various names, the Drama Triangle or, Victim Triangle.  I’ll be calling it the Drama to Empowerment Dynamic, since it’s a moving model.  I call to your attention a mental state or attitude that this dynamic shows us very clear...

Emotional Mastery is the ability to have someone get mad as hell at you and before you get mad as hell back at them, transform the anger to something different and better.  In an emotionally masterful state, you have a choice of how to respond, instead of automatically reacting, which looks like “Ga...

As a teacher of energy, I’ve noticed that each energy has a light and shadow side.  

The shadow side is when energy is stuck. The light side is when energy is flowing. 

An example:  Guilt and passion are the same energetic.  Passion is energy moving; guilt is energy stuck.  Similarly, fear is ener...

Frequently people comment on my social media posts.  “You’re really out there”, they say.  Or, “It seems like you’re going for it.”

What they are getting at is, I post about sex and intimacy and my own experiences as a teacher, leader and lover.

It takes nerve to write about life from first-person...