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Come on out of the darkness! Sep 19, 2023

As a teacher of energy, I’ve noticed that each energy has a light and shadow side.  

The shadow side is when energy is stuck. The light side is when energy is flowing. 

An example:  Guilt and passion are the same energetic.  Passion is energy moving; guilt is energy...

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More Than What You Eat Aug 23, 2023

Frequently people comment on my social media posts.  “You’re really out there”, they say.  Or, “It seems like you’re going for it.”

What they are getting at is, I post about sex and intimacy and my own experiences as a teacher, leader and lover.

It...

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What’s Your Take on Pleasure? indulgence pleasure scarcity survival Aug 07, 2023

Does pleasure seem frivolous? Indulgent? After all, isn’t there serious work to do? And what about all the problems of the world, the weather, our workplace and the difficult people around us?  

No, not actually. There is no serious work to be done, although there may be tasks...

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Permission to Play Jul 20, 2023

You know the difference between Country Western music and Hip Hop, don't you?

 

Each has its special rhythm, feel or vibe.  Each lends a different mood to the party.

 

Same with work and play.  Each has its mood, feel and vibe.

 

The vibe of work is:  hard. ...

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Secrets to Fulfillment Jan 26, 2022

Where do you go for fulfillment?  For so many people I talk to, the cup is half empty.  One area of their life or another is “not working”.  This is a perennial complaint I hear in our workshops and coaching sessions.

 

My area of expertise is how males and females...

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Making Fun of Grown-Ups Jan 11, 2022

 

Who’s happier, 3-year-olds or 33-year-olds?  It’s not a trick question.  

 

If you can’t answer, go by a nursery school and watch the kids.

Then drop by a coffee shop or bar where Millennials hang out.  Notice the differences between the...

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